How to Make Great Passionate Love

Passion is a deep desire and longing, a strong desire for and enthusiasm surrounding something or someone. Being passionate includes this sense and feeling of being ruled by an all-consuming urge to engage intensely in an operation be it physical, mental or emotional. This seminar will not include passions for such things as art, music, any career or political view; instead we are focusing on utilizing your potential to understand and generate passion in your sexual relationship. Where there is passion, most often there is also love.

If you are married you will need to be more creative about when, where, how long you will be intimate. Never stop being friends and lovers, that's the first key. Next, know yourself, your inner most desires and do not be afraid to bring fantasies into your sex life - with the approval of your partner of course. You must first understand yourself and why you have gotten yourself into a boring sexual place. In counseling so many couples over the years I have been told that children tend to put a damper on relationships. I think that's a copout! Don't let the creativity die for heaven's sake! You've seen that agenda "Are you smarter than a fifth grader" right? Well, put your two heads together and come up with ways to work colse to children. That's your job, mine here is to teach you how to come to be the passionate lover you desire to be, and to receive passionate advances and act upon them as well. Passion begins in the mind but it connects every cell and directs corporeal and emotional reactions where there is love and enthusiasm.

Bed Bath And Beyond

Identifying passion - see how this passionate scene makes you feel:

Just Imagine: Your lover is a length away but you can't stop mental of her straight through the day. You connect in ways you might not even understand, there is a mingling of souls as they say and a depth to your love.

Your drive home seems too long but your mind and body are already with her, remembering past lovemaking events. The way she walks, her smile, her intellect, her spontanaeity, and sensitive ways; and oh her soft skin great body, the way she responds to you and how she makes you feel sensual. She calls you and says something naughty and you can't wait to get home.

It's been a long day at the office, and you had an exhausting dinner meeting. You come home, your favorite music is playing, the fragrance of candles in the air, the fireplace is on and your lover greets you at the door. She puts her arms colse to you wearing your favorite parfum, hair a small separate showing her neck, and she kisses your lips, it's a warm wet kiss. She is wearing something very seductive, but not too much skin yet showing. She takes your portfolio as you slip off your shoes. She walks upstairs with you and helps you remove your coat, tie, and pants. You freshen up as she tells you she will be downstairs waiting for you. This is different, pleasing and attractive as well.

You come down the stairs and she has removed an article of clothing that creates a reaction. She takes your hand and brings it close to her body allowing a diplomatic caress but nothing more. She has arranged a comfortable place with a blanket and pillows on the living room floor in front of the fireplace. She hands you your favorite drink. You haven't made love there before. You start to talk but she touches her finger to your lips as if to say shhh, I understand you. She begins to kiss your hand, seductively sucking one of your fingers and your imagination runs wild. Emotions within you stir and impulses are strong. She dips her hands in warm massage oil as you relax conveniently on the pillows. It feels as if she is reaching inside of you somehow and your body begins involuntary movements. This is all about you now, as you close your eyes for a moment wanting this to last. She pulls away and blows moderately on the oiled spots. You can hardly stand it as she continues to bring her body closer to you allowing parts of her body to brush against you. She is also aroused and desirous as you are, but with restraint you both allow the passion to rise while you witness new erogenous zones watching and listening for just the right reaction. It is evident that she wants to please you and you want to please her as well; it is not just a corporeal pleasure that you both seek, but a spiritual one as well.

You feed each other cooled berries dipped in your favorite alcohol and the juice runs down your skin and hers as well. Deep desire and emotions rise as never before...there is a newness, roughly as if a separate man is manufacture love to you, while at the same time, you love the deep association beyond the corporeal even now. You haven't wanted each other so much in a long while...and then the deepest passionate connection.

That's a sense of a passionate scene. What was happening internally? What makes you desire man so much that all other thoughts disappear? Lust is not passion. So if you do not know your lover very well, and you are not in love with one another, sharing passion is not what you will experience. Being sexually stimulated by man without love admittedly happens all of the time. This seminar surrounds identifying with passion to the core of your being, that which some have described as champagne running straight through their veins. Passion does not necessarily generate a sexual reaction, but it does elicit a fire in the heart, a yearning so unlike straightforward sex that you are blown away by the experience.

Next, what will make you more desirable? What will generate the automated wave of passionate desire for you in your partner?

In order to find your passion you must witness yourself and then understand and make discoveries about your partner. Passionate love manufacture does not just call for intensity, it calls for love. An personel can be an artful lover, but not passionate. Zealousness does not always equate to passion. There is a chemistry that unites two lovers on levels that move beyond the physical. If love is definable, and I don't know if it is truly inherent to define love with human words; than passion is undoubtedly one of the components in that equation. We must desire man so much that the core of our being is rocked by the site of them, by their touch, by their words, by the view of them. One must be able to elicit a reaction at a length for passion to exist. Fantasies undoubtedly come into the photograph of passion as imagery is powerful. So before you see your lover begin imaginging them. Fantasize what it will feel like to hold them, to touch them, to kiss them, to be intimate. Make them part of your fantasy before it happens.

If your love life has gone stale and you want to change things dramatically take a look at the suggestions below:

Identify your own sexual thirst and pleasures. First each of you should write down all you can think of that turns you on and that you find erotic. Think about any fantasies that you have had or anything sexual that you wanted to try or view was interesting. Try to make as thorough a list as inherent and get creative. If you don't have ideas rent some movies if need be. Next write down what you think your partner most enjoys and be specific. Comprehension your partner on all levels will help you generate passionate love making. If you know your partner enjoys silk sheets, a warm bath, roses, a massage, walking on the beach, listening to Beethoven or Bach, dancing, hot movies, make these things part of the experience. Make changes as moods and interests change...be flexible. Discuss your lists. Does he or she find the items erotic? Would he or she be concerned in trying one or more? Sense their reactions on every level. Look into his or her eyes and determine if they are unable to say the words you need to hear. Talk about how you would try the items or if you or your partner wanted any discrepancy or would need to negotiate any boundaries or limits of what would be tried. straight through examining these lists, you may learn something new about your partner. determine which items you both find erotic and interesting. Have one partner plan a time for you to be together and sexual.Surprise each other and for heaven's sake be spontaneous occasionally. Lovemaking is quite boring when you have to agenda it into your day or night. Shower together...that can be admittedly fun! Or take a whirlpool bath together; be sure to add fragrant candles for mood lighting, play gorgeous music, and lay in one another's arms while you soak---let things happen. It is not uncommon for couples to have separate sexual desires. In fact that can make things even more fun! Passion includes enthusiasm for manufacture each other's fantasies happen, as well as for manufacture your own happen. Your partner will appreciate that you took an interest in something that he or she would like and it sends the signal that it is o.k. For you both to have separate sexual tastes, that you are attentive to his or her needs as a sexual person, and that you receive pleasure from watching him or her get turned on. You may find over time that you not only enjoy giving your partner pleasure, but that you enjoy the operation as well. We often don't know what we might like unless we give it a try a few times. If you are willing to be more open to your partner's ideas, it is likely that he or she will be more open to your ideas as well. Lovemaking should begin long before any sexual act. Possibly walking hand-in-hand along a gorgeous path, or window shopping; sitting at a ball game, watching birds in the park, going for a ride and touching each other playfully while driving (be careful); do anything it is that brings you to the playful side of life, the tender moments. Have you admittedly explored each other on every level? Try playing a sexual game. Go to an adult shop and pick out something together. Make life a party whenever possible. Celebrate each other beyond the bedroom. pleasure one another in ways that do not include corporeal intimacy. Learn to bend so that you do not break apart. Love what you do and do what you love more often. Stop juding your body or your partners. Love them from inside out. With age comes body changes and challenges. If you are truly in love with man passion will remain high because you will move intimacy to "higher ground"; the mind and the spirit. Upgrade your look from head to toe every six months. Keep things fresh and exciting. Make the space where you spend most of your lovemaking time the most glorious space possible. Make it sexy for both of you.

Creating passion is about being creative and experimenting in ways that feel comfortable, pleasurable, and exciting. Sexual expression in our relationships is about sharing love and having fun. So have fun, and allow the passion within you to generate moments that are extraordinary! Once you generate the moments, a lifetime of passionate love will be yours if you continue to be attentive to your needs and your lover's as well.

Keep things hot!

How to Make Great Passionate Love